Her dad, Jack, is played by Robert De Niro as the nightmare of every hopeful groom. He is in love with a Chicago schoolteacher named Pam ( Teri Polo), who takes him home to meet her parents on Long Island. That's not his real name Focker is, Greg isn't. In 'Meet the Parents,' he plays the unfortunately named Greg Focker. by this time Stiller is demonstrating how he used his fingers on the mother cat's itsy-bitsy little nipples, and everyone in the room is regarding him as a madman. Then why did he claim to have experience at milking? Well, he had a cat, which 'birthed' 30 kittens, including one little fellow who could never get his turn at the table, and. It is revealed he was actually reared in Detroit. The development is like a comic pyramid: The base is a casual claim that he was reared on a farm.
Why would a man claim to have milked a cat? The screenplay, by Jim Herzfeld and John Hamburg, gets a lot of its laughs out of the way Stiller's character tells thoughtless little social lies and then, when he's caught, improvises his way into bigger, outrageous lies.